People and their opinions

While I was on Steve Pavlina's forums earlier this week, a young lady was asking about people's opinions of her because of the way she dressed.

I responded with the following:

I think that people these days are too judgmental. People look at others in different ways, people then take this in a different manner as well. I know someone who had a self esteem problem and he would take people looking at him as if something was wrong with him or he hadn't done something properly. I wouldn't worry about what other people think and you can't control what other people think. As long as you think your a good person and you appreciate yourself and your body, then you have nothing to worry about.

If you want to see the full discussion, here is a link.

Forum Link

I want to leave you all with a thought mentioned by someone called SimonaRich.

If you care about what people think it means you are seeking their approval, otherwise you would not look outside to see how good you look. If you are happy with the way you look, that should be the only thing that concerns you.

Here is an image that sums up nicely...

Personalities and Relationships

Hi everyone!

Today's posts is all about being yourself!

A lady asked me earlier this week about some advice for a relationship question she had. She explained how she thought her personality wasn't the type men would be interested in 'actively pursuing' a relationship with her for. She asked if she should change her personality, to a more aggressive type so that she would meet more men and catch their attention more.

Do you know what my response to her was???

NEVER EVER EVER change who you are inside for someone else, 9 times out of 10 you will be uncomfortable and the relationship wont work because your trying to be something or someone your not. Keep being your smiley old self and one day you will meet the right man (or woman). The moral of the story here kids is that we should never be forced or want to change who we are as a person, what makes us 'us' just to be in a relationship or look more 'attractive' or 'available'.

peace out ^_^

- Chris Newman

Self Esteem Secrets Ebook

Today I found this e-book on a website called More Self esteem, which is run by Karl Perera.

Karl has run the site for more then 10 years now and has developed a labyrinth of articles, newsletters and videos to encourage, support and empower people struggling with self esteem and self confidence issues. Karl is also the author of a self help and prosperity blog, in which he shows viewers ways to earn an income on the internet and how to deal with various self help / self development issues.

As of late, Karl has released his brand new e-book, 'Self Esteem Secrets'. This powerful book is stuffed with tones of helpful information, advice, exercises and quotes to motivate, empower and assist you to overcome any issues and struggles you are currently facing.

Karl has kindly uploaded a chapter of his book and some information about his book for people to look at before deciding whether to buy. You can find these at his website, and I have attached links to his information page and sneak peak page as well.

Self Esteem Secrets Information

Sneak Peak = Chapter Information

Free First Chapter

I have read the e-book and it offers lots of helpful information, and if it doesn't suit your expectations... Karl has a modest refund policy too.

To grab your copy of Self Esteem Secrets today, Click Here!

On another note, a great way to further your personal development is to get a secondary education. Phoenix College offers online programs for a variety of disciplines.

Self Help and Development Blog - First Post :D

Hi everyone and welcome to my self help and development blog.

In this blog you will find helpful information about products that I recommend as well as products that I have worked on and developed to help people with self-esteem issues, confidence issues, shyness issues and much more.

I hope that the information I can provide will be relevant and inspiring, that it will help you make a change in your life.

Warm Regards,

Chris Newman



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Self help and development enthusiast. My name is Chris and I live in Queensland, Australia. Hope I can help you out! :D

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