Personalities and Relationships

Hi everyone!

Today's posts is all about being yourself!

A lady asked me earlier this week about some advice for a relationship question she had. She explained how she thought her personality wasn't the type men would be interested in 'actively pursuing' a relationship with her for. She asked if she should change her personality, to a more aggressive type so that she would meet more men and catch their attention more.

Do you know what my response to her was???

NEVER EVER EVER change who you are inside for someone else, 9 times out of 10 you will be uncomfortable and the relationship wont work because your trying to be something or someone your not. Keep being your smiley old self and one day you will meet the right man (or woman). The moral of the story here kids is that we should never be forced or want to change who we are as a person, what makes us 'us' just to be in a relationship or look more 'attractive' or 'available'.

peace out ^_^

- Chris Newman


Karl Perera April 28, 2009 at 6:55 PM  

Great post Chris and I totally agree. I learnt that being yourself is the only way to go and trying to be something else is bound to end in failure. True self esteem means accepting yourself as you are, if you do this others will follow,

thanks for your blog!

Christopher Newman May 1, 2009 at 6:15 PM  

Thanks Karl :) Glad your enjoying the articles.

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